Confidence

Some people find it hard to be confident. I was once a shy person too. But out of nowhere, confidence embraced me. I'll tell you my story later.

To me, extreme shyness is a disease. Some people can't seem to even look at other people because of their shyness. They think they are inferior to other people. This leads to a lot of hopes and dreams not achievable. You've seen teen movies with dudes that are shy, he didn't let the girl know how he feels, and loses the girl to some dumb jerk right? Also, a girl (I didn't want to be called sexist so, yeah.) who lost a promotion in her workplace because she wasn't confident enough to seize the opportunity that her boss gave her. Well this is an easy example of what we are trying to avoid.

Improve Your Physical Appearance, dude. This is very clear. Fat people don't always get what they want because of their physical appearance. Yes, everyone have the right to be happy as they are, but, you have to think in a bigger picture. If you were the boss/interviewer/customer/designer/male/female/atheist or any person in the whole wide world, if you have to choose between two extremely good lawyers, with the same personality, same grades, same great ideas, same everything, and the only difference is their physical appearance, who would you choose?

You would choose the fit one rather than the fat one, of course.

Go out! Be healthy, do some sports a few days a week and work out some sweat. If you don't feel healthy, you can't live your live to the fullest. Improving your outer game DOES improve your inner game. 


Expand Your Comfort Zone. Do you even know why you're shy? It's because you don't dare to be confident. You fear the bad things that  might happen (People laughing at you, being scolded, etc.) This pessimistic thinking, this fear is what stopping you from being confident. So how do we overcome fear? You face it.

Do you think public speakers have the balls to go in front and talk non stop for 15 minutes on their first time?  No frikkin hell. They practice, repeatedly. They go out multiple times until they get used to it, get comfortable with speaking in front of an audience. So try everything that you once fear, get comfortable, and  gain confidence laik a mafaka.

I would write more stuff, but my I'm typing this since 4am so, yeah. 

p.s: 3. Get it? PS3? The video game console? Oh damn I'm hilarious.